This blog has been created by and for the Kinast Family. As we begin to grow and branch out, we thought it might be fun to create a place where we could learn and share about one another. In this blog, you will hear stories about funny situations we have been in, current status on family, things that have helped us to grow as people and other positive impacts that we have each experienced in our lives. So, sit back, take a few moments to relax, and learn about those you love who will always love and support you in your life...

12.10.2012

A New Apartment and First Christmas Home

Well, things are once again changing in my life. Ben and I are moving into our new apartment here in Hutchinson. In case you are interested our address will be 720 North Main Apartment 402 Hutchinson KS 67501. I still love mail and I'm getting better at answering back so feel free to send me some mail.

I love my little apartment. It is in The Hutchinson Lofts which was formerly Grace Hospital which is where Grandpa was born. About a year ago they completely renovated the building and made it into housing. Each apartment is different and has a lot of character. My apartment is two bedrooms and has a cute little living room. The first thing in my apartment was a thrifted couch and my (fully decorated) Christmas tree. I'm excited because we will be celebrating Christmas day at my apartment.

It feels important to mention here that this will be my first holiday out of treatment in four years. I was able to come home for one day in 2009 when I was at Laureate's eating disorder program but I have very few memories from that time. In 2010 I was in Utah at The Center for Change and in 2011 I was in Washington DC at a trauma program. I'm so excited to be home and to experience all of the season. I am appreciating the traditions, the lights, the trees, seeing all of you, hanging stockings, helping out at church's Street's of Bethlehem and for the first time decorating my own home.

The main reason I have managed to stay out of treatment (as this is a hard time of year for me) is of course Benny. Ben has been amazing. Our bond has continued to grow. We now move seamlessly through crowds whereas before it took a lot more forethought.  He reads my emotions easily and comforts me without asking. His grounding presecene and the love he offers me everyday has allowed me to continue to function.

Speaking of Ben we faced our first act of discrimination. A retreat I wanted to go to would not allow me to come because I have Ben. I plan on writing them a letter and also reporting them to the department of Justice. Ben has made me quite fierce.

Let's see....nothing much else to report. I am participating in a photo challenge where I take a different themed picture of Ben (or one of the girls) every day for the month of December. If you are interested check out that album here. I'll update it everyday.

Love,
Kate and Ben

And now for a few pictures. :)


And the tree is up in the apartment! 

Ben and I in our apartment 


Ben and Adelynn have become quite good friends

Ben visits Santa (November 2012)






12.06.2012

Another Rivers Ripple

When last we posted, it was August and we had just returned from vacation and began to tackle potty training.
Since then, the fall has flown by.  Olivia and Sarah continue to enjoy days home together.  We fill our time playing, reading, creating arts and crafts, attending playgroup and library storytime, running errands, going to the Y, and generally having a good time.  We've had OB appointments more frequently so that's been an added task on the list.  Sarah is now at 36 weeks (and dilated to a 4 as of today!)--the crunch for accomplishing things before baby arrives began at the end of October with the realization that Olivia's birthday and Thanksgiving were only weeks away.  Since then, we've been working hard to get things accomplished.  Some days are more productive than others.
We've transitioned the computer room to a playroom/library, which seems like it will work out well.  Olivia continues in her toddler bed because when we went to set up her twin bed, the headboard was missing!  Now we are waiting for it to ship.  Hopefully soon.  Otherwise she may end up on the floor on her mattresses for a bit of time for Sarah's sanity.  The basement is now our entertainment area/music man cave.  Dan has his basses hung and we are able to watch TV when time allows.
Dan works hard daily at KWCH-12, you can see a lot of his hard work in the presentation of the KWCH website and in his iphone app for CatchItKansas.  Bayless Band is officially done in Kansas--the main people moved, so Dan just has church band right now.
Sarah has been busy teaching 2 and 3 year old Sunday School and has Olivia in her class now.  It's a fun adventure most weeks!  (For a fun picture: the first week Olivia joined our class we had 2 separate potty breaks that involved everyone...)  Besides what was mentioned above, Sarah has continued with one Saturday a month at ViaChristi and plans to return there in April as this past Saturday was her last day to work until after new baby.
Olivia has been successful with potty training--we are down to an accident every week and a half or so, which is usually the result of being in the wrong place and the wrong time (car, Y parking lot, church potluck).  Wa-hoo!  For those who might be around to help her, potty break sounds a lot like "patty cake".  Beware.  Olivia celebrated her 2nd birthday and enjoyed the cake, candles, singing, and presents that came with it.  It was fun to watch her enjoy opening her gifts and her eyes lighting up when people sang to her.  Her favorite activities include playing babies, dressing up, and tea/fruit party.  She's also been into painting lately--this usually involves whole-hand finger painting, even when given a brush.
Brisco has good and bad allergy days, but we are going to try some probiotics and resume fish oil to see if that helps.  He's now on grain free food permanently as his salmon food was affecting him.
My apologies for a late post and for no pictures.  I had most of this post typed, and went to add pictures only to have google say I was out of space.  Now I can't seem to figure out how to get my picasa album working.  Grump.  But, know that we are all doing well.  We anxiously await new baby's arrival and hope to have a little person to introduce to you all before Christmas.  You can keep up with our latest adventures and Olivia's antics at: theriverscurrent.blogspot.com
  

12.01.2012

Some Christmas Cheer from Colorado

Well...after three days and many expletives...my apartment is decorated.

Here are some pictures for you to enjoy!

Love and Holiday Greetings to all!








11.19.2012

Of Haircuts and Housemates


Hello family, here's a quick update on what I've been up to.

First off, I'm back in Hutchinson for Thanksgiving. I'm currently sitting in one of our recliners observing a terrified Mandalay...things haven't changed much. Although I haven't seen any cats just yet, which is a big difference from the normal.

At school, I've completed my first four grad school apps (to UNC Chapel Hill, UNC Charlotte, Arizona, and Colorado) and am currently considering what schools to follow those up with. I have at least a few with later application dates marked so I can use them as fall backs.

I successfully presented one of the papers I linked last time at the Columbia College Undergraduate Philosophy Conference. It was a good experience and really helped me to refine the paper so that it was more accessible. Of course, I stayed up all night doing this (yay, Prozac and coffee)...

...then stayed up the next night to build a TARDIS (from the television show Doctor Who) for the homecoming parade. The WC Independents (whom we were building it for) won, and rightly so.

Looking ahead to next semester, I only have 6 hours of classes, two upper level philosophy courses on "The Meaning of Life" and "Philosophy of Mind," so my classroom experiences should be really enjoyable to close out my Westminster career. When I'm not doing that, I'll spend about 20hrs a week working in Jefferson City as a part of the "Capitol Internship Program." While I don't know my placement yet, it'll probably be with State Senator Maria Chappelle-Nadal, a Democrat who will give me the opportunity to explore my interest in healthcare and public policy.

And just to head off any possible questions on Thanksgiving, yes, I am missing my sideburns. I gave myself a haircut for the first time, and while doing so, accidentally removed one of them. At that point I was forced to decide if I would look stranger with just the one or with none at all. I chose none and now just wait for them to return. So that concludes the first half of my title! On to the second!

EcoHouse this year has five residents, plus a few frequent visitors. These are my second family:

Mulu is from Addis-Abba, Ethiopia, although she went to high school in BC, Canada. She studies Chemistry and Environmental Science, cooks traditional Ethiopian food (which means enough onions to make your eyes water no matter where you are in the house, jalepenos, and paprika--the hotter food is, the better), dances a fair amount, and speaks English and Amharic. She's taught me to count to five, say goodnight, and thank you. Spelled phonetically, that's "UNd, WHO-let, SO-st, AH-raht, and AH-mist" (1-5) although since her birthday was yesterday, I also know "AI-ya UNd" is twenty one. Goodnight is "DARE-na, ah-DARE-he," and thank you is "ah-muh-SAY GA-nello." We also know her for her sense of humor, which we've termed "pulling a Mulu"--at different times she's easily convinced me that she was 22, spoke French, was leaving EcoHouse at the semester, and was crying out of happiness. She pulls it off every time. I've also agreed to go to a Greek Orthodox service with her sometime, since she needs a ride there.

Mulu chops jalepenos and tomatoes for our Thanksgiving
Marina is from a part of Sao Paola, Brazil, but has previously lived in the US in Maryland during part of high school. She is studying math and pre-engineering, is one of the few I-students at the school not a part of the University World College program, and speaks Portuguese and English. She's taught me how to say her first name (I still can't get her last one down), goodnight, and thank you. Respectively, those are "mah-dRI-na" (the "r" sound isn't one we have in English), "bo-A NOI-ch," and "oh-bri-GAH-(d)oh" (the "d" is nearly silent). We know her for spending the most time around Andrew and I and thus having picked up a fair amount of our sarcasm. She's a worrier and tends to run around a lot. 

Marina prepares a traditional Brazilian birthday treat
Kareem is from Palestine, but attended high school in Albuquerque.  He's currently studying economics, although that's not his first choice, he has to graduate in 4 years because of his scholarships so he can't switch again. He speaks English, teaches Arabic, and is learning Spanish. Kareem has just started cooking the house, which really means we see Rima cooking for the both of them a lot (more on her in a bit). He holds a Jordanian passport because Palestine's contentious status means they don't issue any (or don't issue ones that are accepted). He's afraid of dogs because the Israeli police use them to control protests and will often have strays follow him at night when he walks home. He's tried to teach me goodnight, but I couldn't even approximate one of the sounds. I'll have it by the end of the semester hopefully.

Kareem takes a break to take some pictures
Andrew, of course, lived with me last year. This is his third year in the house, and he's majoring in Philosophy and the Science of Information, and minoring in Math. Next year, he'll probably try and make the What if...? Conference, which he started last year, into a job. His fall back plans include graduate school for either design or philosophy. We tend to refer to each other as "brother," both as an inside reference to the TV show LOST and as an honorific for the way our thinking complements each other. He knows about as much American Sign Language as I do French (so he can put together sentences) and about as much French as I know ASL (we tend to exchange pieces of information). He's taught me remember, forget, now, pretty, beautiful, I, son, and daughter. 

Andrew and I add the second of three tables we needed
Our most frequent visitors include Michael, Andrew's girlfriend, who is Pre-Law and Poli Sci. She's also a junior this year, one of the motivating factors for Andrew's decision to not go to grad school immediately. She's currently in ASL classes and often teaches us new signs (I can count up to twenty). Rima takes second place, who is Kareem's kind-of-sort-of girlfriend, a Palestinian refugee living in Lebanon. She hasn't taught us any Italian, but is a really fun person to have around the house. She and Kareem occasionally argue about dancing (she's all for it, but he's opposed).

Michael and Andrew as we leave our picnic at the Arch
Kareem says he does it, but if you ask Rima, she says she does all the cooking
Lastly, because of our own population of I-Students and because I have some international mentees, we had a massive Thanksgiving of our own last night. Below are just a few photos, but our end result was about 20 guests (plus some surprise guests for Mulu's birthday who showed up later).
Our dessert table

The rest of the potluck

A few of the guests, including (from L-R) Kareem, Kristen (my comentor), Joseph (from the Congo), Sean (from South Africa), Rosemary (from Missouri), Rima, Marina, and in the front Mulu on the left and Mihi on the right--both from Ethiopia